InspiredMe: Change is in the Air

“Change is life-giving.

It helps us grow into someone greater than we already are.”

-unknown

There isn’t a more perfect time to embrace change than when the earth is in beautiful transformation from winter to spring. We saw hints of this happening all around on our afternoon walk yesterday. Warm air, budding on trees, green filling the world. It is truly one of the most beautiful changes the world goes through.

There has been a lot of change in my life lately. I sometimes have a hard time with change. It can be scary, uncertain, and uncomfortable. But it can also be thrilling, exciting, renewing, and life-giving. My mother told me it’s all in the way you look at it.

My parents are brave change goers. They love change. That might be the reason we moved every 3-4 years growing up. My parents thrived on change… meeting new people, discovering the world, and seeing a new view on life. Change is what took us half-way around the world living in third world countries and having amazing adventures.

I recently asked my mom why she loves change and this is what she said. In her own words:

“To me, change and hope are side by side. I love change because it always fills me with hope that right around a new corner of life might be the most amazing things. Even things I have been praying for and longing for. That has happened time and time again for me. Change has also brought me amazing friendships all over the world that have so enriched my earth life. I would be sad if I could not look forward to change.”

My goal this week is to embrace change. To view it in the eyes of my mother… A reason to grow, to love, and to hope, and to see the beauty of change fill my world.

InspiredMe: 15 Things You Sould Give Up To Be Happy

I found this post from Purpose Fairy and had to share because it was so inspiring. Here are the 15 things she said that will bring more happiness to your life:

1. Give up your need to always be right. There are so many of us who can’t stand the idea of being wrong – wanting to always be right – even at the risk of ending great relationships or causing a great deal of stress and pain, for us and for others. It’s just not worth it. Whenever you feel the ‘urgent’ need to jump into a fight over who is right and who is wrong, ask yourself this question: “Would I rather be right, or would I rather be kind?” Wayne Dyer. What difference will that make? Is your ego really that big?

 


2. Give up your need for control. 
Be willing to give up your need to always control everything that happens to you and around you – situations, events, people, etc. Whether they are loved ones, coworkers, or just strangers you meet on the street – just allow them to be. Allow everything and everyone to be just as they are and you will see how much better that will make you feel.

“By letting it go it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when you try and try. The world is beyond winning.” Lao Tzu

 

3. Give up on blame. Give up on your need to blame others for what you have or don’t have, for what you feel or don’t feel. Stop giving your power away and start taking responsibility for your life.

 

4. Give up your self-defeating self-talk. Oh my. How many people are hurting themselves because of their negative, polluted and repetitive self-defeating mindset? Don’t believe everything that your mind is telling you – especially if it’s negative and self-defeating. You are better than that.

“The mind is a superb instrument if used rightly. Used wrongly, however, it becomes very destructive.” Eckhart Tolle

 

5. Give up your limiting beliefs about what you can or cannot do, about what is possible or impossible. From now on, you are no longer going to allow your limiting beliefs to keep you stuck in the wrong place. Spread your wings and fly!

“A belief is not an idea held by the mind, it is an idea that holds the mind” Elly Roselle

 

6. Give up complaining. Give up your constant need to complain about those many, many, maaany things – people, situations, events that make you unhappy, sad and depressed. Nobody can make you unhappy, no situation can make you sad or miserable unless you allow it to. It’s not the situation that triggers those feelings in you, but how you choose to look at it. Never underestimate the power of positive thinking.

 

7. Give up the luxury of criticism. Give up your need to criticize things, events or people that are different than you. We are all different, yet we are all the same. We all want to be happy, we all want to love and be loved and we all want to be understood. We all want something, and something is wished by us all.

 

8. Give up your need to impress others. Stop trying so hard to be something that you’re not just to make others like you. It doesn’t work this way. The moment you stop trying so hard to be something that you’re not, the moment you take of all your masks, the moment you accept and embrace the real you, you will find people will be drawn to you, effortlessly.

 

9. Give up your resistance to change. Change is good. Change will help you move from A to B. Change will help you make improvements in your life and also the lives of those around you. Follow your bliss, embrace change – don’t resist it.
“Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls” 
Joseph Campbell

 

10. Give up labels. Stop labeling those things, people or events that you don’t understand as being weird or different and try opening your mind, little by little. Minds only work when open. “The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don’t know anything about.” Wayne Dyer

 

11. Give up on your fears. Fear is just an illusion, it doesn’t exist – you created it. It’s all in your mind. Correct the inside and the outside will fall into place.
“The only fear we have to fear, is fear itself.”
 Franklin D. Roosevelt

 

12. Give up your excuses. Send them packing and tell them they’re fired. You no longer need them. A lot of times we limit ourselves because of the many excuses we use. Instead of growing and working on improving ourselves and our lives, we get stuck, lying to ourselves, using all kind of excuses – excuses that 99.9% of the time are not even real.

 

13. Give up the past. I know, I know. It’s hard. Especially when the past looks so much better than the present and the future looks so frightening, but you have to take into consideration the fact that the present moment is all you have and all you will ever have. The past you are now longing for – the past that you are now dreaming about – was ignored by you when it was present. Stop deluding yourself. Be present in everything you do and enjoy life. After all life is a journey not a destination. Have a clear vision for the future, prepare yourself, but always be present in the now.

 

14. Give up attachment. This is a concept that, for most of us is so hard to grasp and I have to tell you that it was for me too, (it still is) but it’s not something impossible. You get better and better at with time and practice. The moment you detach yourself from all things, (and that doesn’t mean you give up your love for them – because love and attachment have nothing to do with one another,  attachment comes from a place of fear, while love… well, real love is pure, kind, and self less, where there is love there can’t be fear, and because of that, attachment and love cannot coexist) you become so peaceful, so tolerant, so kind, and so serene. You will get to a place where you will be able to understand all things without even trying. A state beyond words.

 

15. Give up living your life to other people’s expectations.

Way too many people are living a life that is not theirs to live. They live their lives according to what others think is best for them, they live their lives according to what their parents think is best for them, to what their friends, their enemies and their teachers, their government and the media think is best for them. They ignore their inner voice, that inner calling. They are so busy with pleasing everybody, with living up to other people’s expectations, that they lose control over their lives. They forget what makes them happy, what they want, what they need….and eventually they forget about themselves.  You have one life – this one right now – you must live it, own it, and especially don’t let other people’s opinions distract you from your path.

InspiredMe: Moving Mommy Monster!

Talk about a crazy week. I’ll be honest, moving doesn’t bring the best out of me… to put it nicely, I’ve not been the most patient mommy this week. My son picked out this shirt to wear to bed last night and I thought it was ironic… he really does love me even when I am hard to love… ie: this week of moving mommy monster!  I have been busy packing, unpacking, and all the while shouting, “don’t touch that,” “pick up that,” “in a minute,” “after mommy cleans this,” “please go play somewhere else,” etc… the list goes on.  You can imagine. But then I read this post today from Pink Pistachio and it gave me a wake up call and brought me back to what is really important. I thought to myself, “wow, I need to relax and come back to being present.” What she said was profound:

“Life spent with our little ones goes so quickly. There’s not the extra time for saying, “Just a minute, son.” or “When I’m finished, ok?”

To be in our children’s memories tomorrow, we have to be in their lives today.”

So, even in the midst of all chaos and stress, there is always time to stop, to be present with my boys, and to enjoy them right now, today… the house can wait, the boxes can stay packed for one more day, the walls can be bare for the time being. What is most important today and always is that my children feel loved and appreciated right now.

 

InspiredMe: Chocolate Cream Cheese Cake Pops

Cake pops are the new cupcake. They are not only fun to eat, but fun to make as well! So when my three year-old son requested cake pops for his birthday party I just had to make them! Most cake pop recipes tell you to use store-bought frosting, which is fine if you want sub-par cake pops… if you want incredible creamy delicious cake pops, make homemade cream cheese frosting… Yummy! Here’s the recipe and tutorial! Have fun!

Chocolate Cream Cheese Cake Pops

Bake chocolate cake according to package instructions.

Make Cream Cheese Frosting.

4 oz. cream cheese

1/2 cube butter

1 1/2 cups powdered sugar

1 tsp. vanilla

Dash of salt

Mix all ingredients together until smooth.

When cake is done baking and cooled, add cake to frosting mixture.

Mix with frosting until moist.

Take about 1 TBS of cake/frosting mixture and roll into small balls. Place on cookie sheet lined with waxed paper. Put in freezer for 30 min.

Melt 1 1/2 cups chocolate in double broiler. Take each sucker stick and dip tips into melted chocolate.

Stick into hardened cake pop.

Dip cake pop into the melted chocolate.

Tap off excess chocolate and swirl around the pop.

Sprinkle with sprinkles or candy of your choice and place cake pops into foam or cardboard box until chocolate hardens.

Put cake pops in the fridge or freezer for 20-30 min to harden chocolate. Share your fun creation with friends and family and enjoy each and every morsel of goodness!

InspiredMe: All Aboard the Birthday Train!

Chuga-chuga-choo-choo! We had a Thomas the Train birthday party this weekend for my son. It was tremendous fun and I thought I’d share some of the party with you all. Birthday’s are the best!

Found the train banner idea here on Etsy.

Tissue Paper Pom Pom tutorial found here.

Chocolate Cream Cheese Cake Pops were a favorite. Such a big hit! Tutorial and recipe coming soon!

My hubby and little baby!

A little electrical tape made a perfect train track! It went from the door and wrapped around the food table and back again.

Used sand buckets to make a little train for the chips!

Found this 7 Layer bean dip idea here. (One of my favorite blog sites! Thanks, Missy!)

I made these two cake toppers on my computer for the cake. Got the cake from Costco… it was SO GOOD! Found the idea here.

It was a super fun day for everyone. Now on to more packing! Big move in 6 days! AHHHH! No more playin…. I need to get busy!

InspiredMe: 100 Things To Get Rid Of

In T-Minus 11 days and counting we will be in our new house! Hurray!  I can’t tell you how exciting moving is- no, really… if it means getting more space for my boys to run around in and an actual YARD… I’m like a little girl at Christmas just thinking about the endless possibilities!

So, when I read this post over at Lasso the Moon, I knew this was for me… I mean, seriously, what better time to do “100 things weekend” than when you’re moving. I am in serious need of taking some pounds off my house’s waist line.

So, read the post on the link above. But, in the mean time, here’s the short run down of how it works. Pick a weekend, (or week) and get rid of at least 100 things… could be trash, recycles, donations, etc. Go through each room and skim down on all your clutter.

This is such a wonderful idea… not only will I feel super good but it will help me with living more simply. And better yet, my house will be filled with only the essentials and a few of my favorite home decor items. Clean and organized. I can’t wait to get rid of things and start anew! (House and all.) Anyone want to join with me on the 100 things weekend? Who’s up for the challenge? Grab your boxes and bags and get going!

This is also a good time to bring up some sad news… since I am in the process of moving, my blog posts might be a little skim for the next two weeks… but don’t you worry your pretty little faces… I’ll be back in full force soon!

InspiredMe: Sunday Morning Cinnamon Rolls

Sunday mornings were some of the sweetest of my childhood…

My dad would wake before everyone else and be busy in the kitchen baking homemade cinnamon rolls. It was a day to look forward to… especially because my dad is a perfectionist, and that didn’t change in the kitchen… everything he made was heaven. Perfectly fluffy, soft and melt-in-your-mouth cinnamon sugar center with homemade buttercream frosting melting on a freshly baked roll was pure bliss. Everyone would gather in the kitchen and sit, talk, and eat. And the whole house would smell of cinnamon and frosting all day long.

So, while we were visiting family this last weekend my brother-in-law requested these cinnamon rolls, so, I made them… and it took me right back to those Sunday mornings! Hope you enjoy a little recipe from my childhood… We could never eat just one. Make them and you will know why!

Daddy-O’s Cinnamon Rolls

Mix and let rise for 15 minutes:

3 1/2 cups warm water

1/2 cup olive oil

3/4 cup sugar

3 TBSP yeast

Add:

3 eggs

1 TBSP salt

8- 10 cups flour (enough to make a sticky dough)

Mix or kneed for 3-5 minutes.

Roll out dough.

Spread 1 cube melted butter on top.

Cover lightly with brown sugar and cinnamon.

Add raisins (optional) and roll up.

Cut 1 inch wide with floss or string.

Place on greased cookie sheet and let rise for 20 min.

Bake on greased cookie sheet at 380 for 15-17 minutes. Makes about 3 dozen.

Daddy-O’s Cinnamon Rolls

Mix and let rise for 15 minutes:

3 1/2 cups warm water

1/2 cup olive oil

3/4 cup sugar

3 TBSP yeast

Add:

3 eggs

1 TBSP salt

8- 10 cups flour (enough to make a sticky dough)

Mix or kneed for 3-5 minutes. Roll out dough. Spread 1 cube melted butter on top. Cover lightly with brown sugar and cinnamon. Add raisins (optional) and roll up. Cut 1 inch wide with floss or string. Place on greased cookie sheet and let rise 20 min. Bake at 380 for 15-17 minutes. Makes about three dozen.

InspiredMe: Pumpkin Cheesecake Muffins

Pumpkin + Cheesecake… um, yes please! The creamy cheesecake center just melts in your mouth. My. Oh. My. Dee-lish! I just found muffin heaven!

If you haven’t noticed, I’m pretty much the #1 fan of muffins. (ie: this post, this post, and this post) They are quite frankly my favorite thing to bake. So when I saw this incredible muffin recipe over at Annie’s Eats I couldn’t wait even until tomorrow to make them. I seriously threw the kids in the car and rushed over to the grocery store to get some pumpkin and cream cheese just so I could make them today. And was it worth it you ask? Yes-sir-ee. Hands down, best muffins I’ve ever eaten.

I tweaked it a tad … I didn’t use the pumpkin pie spice that it called for, instead I put in some ginger and more cinnamon, put a little less oil, and used brown sugar instead of white sugar for the topping. Other than that, it is the same recipe by Annie. You can find the original recipe here.

Thank-you Annie’s Eats for this scrumpdidilly-umptious recipe!

Pumpkin Cheesecake Muffins

Yield: 24 muffins

Ingredients

For the filling:
8 oz. cream cheese, softened
1 cup confectioners’ sugar

For the muffins:
3 cups all-purpose flour
2 tsp. ground cinnamon                                                                                                          1 tsp. ginger
1/2 tsp. ground nutmeg
1/2 tsp. ground cloves
1 tsp. salt
1 tsp. baking soda
4 large eggs
2 cups sugar
2 cups pumpkin puree
1 cup vegetable oil

For the topping:
½ cup brown sugar
5 tbsp. flour
1½ tsp. ground cinnamon
4 tbsp. cold unsalted butter, cut into pieces

Directions

To prepare the filling, combine the cream cheese and confectioners’ sugar in a medium bowl and mix well until blended and smooth. Transfer the mixture to a piece of plastic wrap and shape into a log about 1½-inches in diameter. Smooth the plastic wrap tightly around the log, and reinforce with a piece of foil. Transfer to the freezer and chill until at least slightly firm, at least 2 hours.

To make the muffins, preheat the oven to 350˚ F. Line muffin pans with paper liners. In a medium bowl, combine the flour, cinnamon, nutmeg, cloves, pumpkin pie spice, salt and baking soda; whisk to blend. In the bowl of an electric mixer combine the eggs, sugar, pumpkin puree and oil. Mix on medium-low speed until blended. With the mixer on low speed, add in the dry ingredients, mixing just until incorporated.

To make the topping, combine the sugar, flour and cinnamon in a small bowl; whisk to blend. Add in the butter pieces and cut into the dry ingredients with a pastry blender or two forks until the mixture is coarse and crumbly. Transfer to the refrigerator until ready to use.

To assemble the muffins, fill each muffin well with a small amount of batter, just enough to cover the bottom of the liner (1-2 tablespoons). Slice the log of cream cheese filling into 24 equal pieces. Place a slice of the cream cheese mixture into each muffin well. Divide the remaining batter among the muffin cups, placing on top of the cream cheese to cover completely. Sprinkle a small amount of the topping mixture over each of the muffin wells.

Bake for 20-25 minutes. Transfer to a wire rack and let cool completely before serving. (It may be hard to resist immediate consumption, but the cream cheese filling gets very hot!)

And of course… here’s some healthy bits of info on Cinnamon: It regulates blood sugar, helps with memory, is a natural food preservative because it inhibits bacterial growth and food spoilage, and has even be found to reduce the proliferation of cancer cells. (found this info here.)